Ladies, it's never right to lower yourself to what these men WANT you to be... BE WHO YOU ARE. If you have to change to please them, they are not worth your time. A Narcissist will trick you into thinking they love you, need you but then they turn around and use you, abuse you... and discard you.
ABUSE IS WRONG IN ANY FORM. If you need help please seek it... don't stay some place where you are dealing with sexual, emotional, mental, or physical abuse. GET HELP. GET OUT OF THERE. You CAN make it alone. You are a strong woman that needs NO man to define who you are.
Take control of your life.
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I am proof you can walk away... you can SURVIVE!
You've got to be your own HERO. Don't wait for someone to save you. YOU SAVE YOU! All it takes is a moment of courage. Know that you can live your life without a man. You can do anything if you set your mind to it. If he is the violent type, seek police when leaving, tell them the situation, tell them why you need to leave. If you don't feel right going to the cops, there is still help. The National Domestic Abuse Hotline is always there for you. Trained advocates are available to take your calls through their toll free, 24/7 hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Or if you are online they have a webpage with chat options at http://www.thehotline.org/
You may not even know it's abuse. Find out if you are being abused at http://www.thehotline.org/is-this-abuse/abuse-defined/
On average, 24 people per minute are victims of rape, physical violence or stalking by an intimate partner in the United States — more than 12 million women and men over the course of a year.
Don't be one of the ones that doesn't survive. You can DO this!